Yup, he's hot as fuck, to be sure. For the sub, this might be an ideal situation for them both. I don't have the data to make any meaningful assessment. However,I just kept shaking my head, saying nope, nope, HELL nope. My cynical husband (24 years and counting) just chuckled, shaking his own head, saying "Tell me when you decide to take on the sad injustices of the unloved." "WTF do you mean decide to take that on???." "Uhhh, oh yah., that's right." So I'm hoping that I'm just being hypersensitive,, and that they're both thrilled by this well crafted relationship. LOL.